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LOVE, DECODED · Ep. 5

The Rock

Why do you two keep having the same fight?

The film asks: What's the rock in your river? · Money / Chores / Their family

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  1. Why do you two keep having the same fight?
  2. Because most fights aren't problems to solve. They're rocks in the river. Gottman found about two thirds never go away.
  3. The couples who last don't remove the rock. They learn where it is and paddle around it, together.
  4. So stop trying to win it. Name the rock, laugh at it, and steer.
  5. What's the rock in your river?

05). A river on a bright morning. A couple in a canoe; a big rock sits midstream. First pass: they paddle straight at it, bump, spin, argue (red cubes). The river loops them back to the same rock: the same fight. Then a name floats on the rock, MONEY, they laugh, and paddle around it, together, and the river carries them on.

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