LOVE, DECODED · Ep. 2
The Bird
What's the smallest thing that predicts whether you two will last?
The film asks: Not the big talks. The bird. Which way did you turn today? · Toward / Away / Didn't notice
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- What's the smallest thing that predicts whether you two will last?
- In John Gottman's lab, one partner would say something tiny. Look at that bird. Nice coffee. He called these bids.
- The other partner could turn toward it, or turn away.
- Couples still together six years later had turned toward each other 86 percent of the time. The ones who divorced, 33.
- Not the big talks. The bird. Which way did you turn today?
02). Gottman's "bids": one partner says something tiny ("look at that bird"), the other turns toward it or away.
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